How to impress and dominate in the bedroom

Making love to a girl for the first time gives her an idea of the kind of lover you will be so it is important that you impress. Women base the relationship potential on how well (or not) the first se.xual encounter goes. So, here are a few things to help you rock her world.


1. Put in the time: A lot of women do not immediately jump into bed with a man they just met. So, being patient will work for you in the long run. When she is ready, she will give you the green light. One way to know it is time is if she is fine being alone in private with you, or if she invites you over to spend private time together.

2. Lip service: Spending a good amount of time kissing her will make her see that you are not just about the se.x. She is already judging you based on the kiss. Quick tip: Trace her lips with your tongue, and alternate soft kisses with gentle sucking on her lips.

3. Descend slowly: Spend a good amount of time kissing and caressing her. About 15 minutes is the norm. Research show it takes about 8 minutes for a woman to get aroused, so double that and you will have her begging.

4. Get ahead:  If she encourages you, then you can give her some loving down south. Quick Tip: Using your tongue, make your first full stroke from her perineum to her inner labia, and then barely touch her clit. Stop, Let her breathe while you kiss her inner thighs. Repeat.

5. The main event: Do not overdo things when it's time. For the first time se.x, a lot of women will prefer the traditional move. Besides, you cannot bring out your Kama Sutra game if you are not sure how she will respond. Quick Tip: Have her lie back with her knees slightly bent, and place pillows under her hips, torso, and head. That'll allow you to kneel between her legs and enter her as you simultaneously stroke her clitoris with your hand.

6. Don't forget the aftermath: When you are done, you should reassure her that you're not just out for a one-night stand. Most women would like a few minutes of closeness. Cuddling, putting a hand on her stomach, or just holding her hand is enough to pass the message.